Words that i hold true as a woman.

 

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Words that I hold true as a woman..

I came across this years ago and it unbelievably explains what i need and long for.. With some modification from its original version, this is still my philosophy and it will always stay the same. When there’s self-awareness, or when you know who and what you are, it is easier to determine what you want in life. Easier to recognize your happiness. Easier to create goals of which you surely will find attainable. You can draw conclusions and decisions with less uncertainty. That is the power of knowing oneself. Once you find or create your identity, no obstacle is ever too formidable to overcome. You'll always believe you're unique, worthy of love, admiration and respect. 

Words that i hold true as a woman, (speaking for myself)…

I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation & mental stimulation. I don’t need a simple-minded man.

I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don’t need to be unequally yoked…believers mixed with non-believers is a recipe for disaster.

I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don’t need a financial burden.

I need a man who is not afraid to be whimsical and to have fun. You can fight boredom and you can age beautifully with it.

I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded.

I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game playing are not my idea of a strong man.

I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader and provider to the lives entrusted to him by God.

I need a man who can accept and deal with his flaws and imperfections. Humility is the seed of self-improvement. 

I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him.

I cannot be submissive to a man who isn’t taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive really. I think it’s important…he just has to be worthy.

And by the way, I am not looking for him…He will find me. He will recognize himself in me. He may not be able to explain the connection between us, but he will always be drawn to me. God made woman to be a helpmate for man. I can’t help a man if he can’t help himself.”

If a man tells me I am asking a lot.

I'd reply, “I’m worth a lot. I know the many things I can offer and the affection and bounties I can share”.

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